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jules

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Re: Abslutly Nothing to do with Bikes at all...
« Reply #15 on: February 26, 2010, 06:09:27 PM »
Well it's a balancing thing isn't it. In our day the range of food treats was considerably smaller and our other suppliers of food, smelly dinner ladies, didn't do chips and burgers. However in this day and age they are surrounded by all sorts of nonsense and temptation, which can make it hard on parents at dinnertime.

It's a funny thing this parenting game and the one thing you learn straight off is that pragmatism is vital. My lads get a good portion of plain old veg with each meal, but we do put something they like with it. Sometimes it's not just what's on the plate that they disagree with, it's the portions. My wife is absolutely incapable of judging how much pasta or how many peas are sufficient for my boy's meals and there's often too much on their plate to start with.

The way I see it is if I go some way to giving them something they like then I have every chance of getting them to eat brocolli, peas, carrot and plain old boiled potato. I'm not interested in beating them with a big stick over food they honestly don't like the taste of. And as I get them to eat healthy food with every meal then I think I'm doing ok. Having said that if they don't finish their food they don't get anything nice to eat for the rest of the evening.

My father was a traditional petty tyrant and, to be honest, I would hate to be like that with my kids. However I often hear myself saying his words and being, frankly, very hard on my lads over little things like good manners at the dinner table. I'm not sure why I even bother as most people you meet these days do things like starting to eat before everyone at the table has had their food served, a thing that my mother treated as very rude and I agree with her.

Mind you, I have eaten with other families where the kids (early teens!) couldn't even hold a knife and fork properly, obviously through lack of practice, so perhaps I'm not doing such a bad job after all.

GC

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why cant fishing be this easy.

guest27

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Re: Abslutly Nothing to do with Bikes at all...
« Reply #16 on: February 28, 2010, 12:21:41 PM »
GC, Sue is doing a fine job with your boys.... ;D

Was reading some research not long back on what people eat and find palatable.  Now I could get the idea that mums milk would have differenent flavours depending on what she has been eating, so the correlation between wide ranging diet in later life and a mum who had more than chicken and chips when she was feeding you works for me.  The research that shows a correlation between what you eat as an adult and what your mum ate when she was carrying you also works, but the research that shows that the relationship you have with food as an adult hs as much to do with what your gran ate...

The upshot of a lot of this was that many kids do not have the scope of tastes that allow them to have a good relationship with food (eating till you are full, eating savoury as well as sweet, moderate fat etc) and grow into adults with a poor relationship with food because they and their mums a babies were bottle fed formula milk.  Most mums do not change the make of formula they give their kids, and the kids are then brough up to weaning on one flavour (sweet and yech) and as a consequence just cannot get on with the bitter and sours fo vegetables and the variation of flavours in good quality food.

Never make my boys sit and finish what is on their plate, they just dont get anything else.  No1 has a pretty god relationship with food, even if his cold squid jambo etc dont go down well with the others kids at school.  No2 has more of a sweet toth and needs to be monitored a bit more - but still demolishes a wide range of lovely grub.  Not as keen on chillies as his brother mind he is only 3.

Ahh according to my research into one pot meals "Hotch Potch" was a common meal in Scotland when al th rubbish was lobbed into one pot and boiled up - and where we get the name for anything that is - well - a hotch potch of bits.

So we have Cawl, Pottage and Hotch Potch - will do the qustion fine as an answer

R

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Re: Abslutly Nothing to do with Bikes at all...
« Reply #17 on: February 28, 2010, 08:24:09 PM »
GC, Sue is doing a fine job with your boys.... ;D

Quite right, she follows this motto:


GC