well, all the rubbers on my srx disappeared long ago to no ill effect.....i think they are simply for noise reduction (ringing)
bleeding the 'bleeding' front brakes on the srx is a right pain, takes me ages! on the srx's I've done a rebuild on, I've run 2 pipes direct from the master cylinder using a double length banjo bolt, makes bleeding a lot easier.
you just have to keep at it basically, it has taken me hours, but eventually it will start to come through, i have, on occasions put 1/2 a litre through before they are completely air free.